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The Most Common Lies We Tell
Which ones have you said?
The Secondhand Inspiration Project begins with a motivational quote and ventures wherever the creative path meanders.
“The truth is always an insult or a joke, lies are generally tastier. We love them. The nature of lies is to please. Truth has no concern for anyone’s comfort” ― Katherine Dunn
People lie. All the time.
They lie when they are trying to appear likable and cool. They lie when they are trying to appear competent or impressive. And sometimes people lie simply because they are deceitful jerks.
If we are going to be honest, lying is a significant part of our daily lives. One study from the Journal of Basic and Applied Psychology reported the average American lies three times in the span of a ten-minute conversation.
Wow.
Even if we’re not career politicians, running profitable Ponzi schemes, or having affairs, subtle untruths shoot out of our mouths like fireworks on the Fourth of July. Sometimes it’s out of kindness, sometimes it’s out of convenience, and sometimes it is to avoid punishment or consequences.
But no matter what, they are lies. And that’s the truth.
Here are some of the common fibs we tell. If you see any that you have said, understand that…