10 hours agoMember-only8 Steps to Confront and Defeat Your ShameVanquish this soul-eating emotion out of your life for good. Carl Jung, one of the most influential psychiatrists ever, once declared, “Shame is a soul-eating emotion.” And he was right. If we examine the catalyst of our destructive feelings, we will quickly learn the causes are often rooted in shame. …Life Lessons4 min readLife Lessons4 min read
May 14Member-onlyMotivation Only Gets You So FarCreate new habits instead (The Secondhand Inspiration Project). The Secondhand Inspiration Project begins with a motivational quote and ventures wherever the creative path meanders. “First, forget inspiration. Habit is more dependable. Habit will sustain you whether you’re inspired or not.” -Octavia Butler Many people believe their motivation and willpower are…Motivation3 min readMotivation3 min read
Mar 26Member-only25 Quotes You Can Use As Daily AffirmationsBecause who can’t use a bit of motivation every once in a while? One effective way to sustain a habit of deliberate optimism is by using daily affirmations. Affirmations are statements repeated regularly to help you focus on goals and reinforce your belief in your ability to achieve them. They…Life Lessons5 min readLife Lessons5 min read
Mar 18Member-onlyThis Quote from Vanessa Williams Should Be Your Gameplan for Personal GrowthA simple roadmap to becoming your future self (The Secondhand Inspiration Project). The Secondhand Inspiration Project begins with a motivational quote and ventures wherever the creative path meanders. Vanessa Williams is an American actress, singer, and former beauty pageant titleholder who has significantly impacted the entertainment industry. Williams became the…Life Lessons5 min readLife Lessons5 min read
Mar 11Member-onlyFive Simple Ways You Can Be More MindfulTiny habits can make a huge impact. 1. Try mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation is a routine that involves focusing your attention on your breath and bodily sensations in the present moment. Consistent meditation — even for short durations daily — can help you cultivate awareness and clarity. It can also reduce stress and anxiety. 2. Engage in mindful activities. …Mindfulness2 min readMindfulness2 min read
Mar 5Member-onlyWhat’s the Best Piece of Professional Advice You’ve Ever Received?My answer actually surprised me. Looking back, I have been lucky in my career. Many folks I know have had nothing but piles of overbearing micromanagers and strict bosses littering the landscape of their work lives. Sure, I have seen my share of pieces of professional garbage during my years…Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read
Feb 24Member-onlyThis Easy Hack Forces You to Stop ProcrastinatingTell the right people about your goals. The kitchen sink is overflowing with dirty dishes that need cleaning. Your tax info sits on a desk, waiting for you to work on them. A memo is due for a client, but you have not even turned on your laptop. Your life…Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read
Feb 22Member-onlyWhat Did an Employer Say That Instantly Made You Regret Working for Them?Cringeworthy stuff. Early in my first job out of college, I caught my new employer with a lie about what my working hours were — they were a lot more than what he first cited during my interview. But I was young and eager and in dues-paying mode. A few…Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read
Feb 18Member-onlyWhat Characteristics Do Good Speeches Have?Here is my humble answer to an age-old question. A newbie in my Toastmasters club recently asked — What characteristics do good speeches have? They had cracked open a Pandora’s Box. That was a deceptively simple question but one with a layered answer. A million people would dole out a…Public Speaking3 min readPublic Speaking3 min read
Feb 11Member-onlyAllow Broken Dreams to Become Blueprints for Your SuccessLet’s pull back the curtain on how. How are your broken dreams blueprints for success? Each failure you experience is a dress rehearsal for some future act of your life where you will become destined to win. But remember that you are the protagonist in this lifelong play. …Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read